If you want to attract women, you have to think like a salesman. Know what your clients want, and tune your product--thats you--to fit the clients needs.
So what we have are five areas that we must market effectively if we want to spark an initial attraction from women. After that, its up to you to show what a great guy you are: let her know youre special, unique, one of a kind. Thats what makes you...a best-seller!
1. Ambition
From an evolutionary stand-point, this one makes complete sense. Think cavemen and cave women in the Stone Age, with some of the weaker cavemen seeking a higher station in the tribe. Who do you think the cave women went for? The men who hobbled along meekly in the bottom of the order...or the men who strived for more and sought a higher place in the pack? Much of a womans desire to be with a man who is ambitious and seeks success, is based simply on survival: The more powerful the man, the more likely shell survive and live well. Logically, going for a guy who has no ambition means shes likely to live in poverty and struggle. Not very appealing, is it?
So you have to present yourself as a guy whos not satisfied with his station in life. This is good for both you and her. If youre making $6 an hour at McDonalds and are content to stay there, not many women are going to be attracted to you. But if youre making $6 an hour and working your ass off to own your own franchise, taking business classes at night so you can learn how to run a business: well, suddenly youre not so bad-looking! Believe me, women will give men a chance, they want to give men a chance--as long as they see potential. Know that quote, Behind every great man is an even greater woman? Show youve got potential and direction, and youll get that great woman.
2. Status
Again, evolutionary instincts of survival make women naturally attracted to men of high status. High status=good living for herself and her children. Fortunately, projecting high status does not have to be difficult; according to Roberts, Wearing the right clothes, especially nice shoes, can go a long way toward portraying wealth. Taking on the unshaken or unworried attitude of wealthy men can project affluence. Hesitant, irresolute, bland men come across as having lower incomes and being less reliable. Got that? You dont have to be a powerful, articulate man yourself-you just have to project similar qualities.
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Some of these qualities include:
* Not putting yourself down. Without being a braggart, talk positively about your accomplishments, job position, and possessions-even if theyre not much. If you treat things as a big deal, other people will, too. Conversely, if you downplay your accomplishments and character, women will, too. Your attitude is contagious, so make sure its an enthusiastic, enlivening one that people enjoy.
* Act like you deserve good women. Dont let women assume a higher status than you. Show them that YOU are the one with higher status. You can do this in a number of ways, including not acting impressed by a womans beauty or career (say, shes a model); teasing her about her clothes or makeup; and asking her to buy you a drink. Chances are she wont, but just by acting like you deserve it, you raise your status! Shes not such an untouchable goddess in the end.
Remember, as well, that women want to EARN a man; they relish the challenge of luring in a winning catch. So play hard to get: talk to other girls, say youve got to be leaving just when things are going well, dont immediately ask for her phone number. If you act like a man who can have his pick of women, then chances are, you will!
* Knowing people of high status. This is a great one. Get to know the people of power: the club owners, bartenders, maitresd. Position yourself as a sociable person whos in the know. When a woman sees you getting special treatment and chatting with high-status people, shell see right away that youre someone of importance. It will also reduce the importance of the other factors, such as height, money, and ambition; immediately youve proven yourself valuable.
* Social proof/Female acquaintances. Hey, nothing says, This guys attractive than having females around him. Of course, the hotter they are, the hotter you look, but even just having average-looking female company can only help: it shows women that other women are interested in you. Do your best to get your female friends and family (sisters, cousins) to come out with you. Its social proof, and it works!
* Wearing nice clothes. When a man is well dressed, writes communications expert, Leil Lowndes, it signifies his ability to provide for her offspring. You dont have to be rich and powerful to wear nice clothes. You just have to show that youre a man of quality, a man headed towards somewhere who pays attention to dress (something women cna never get enough of). Formal clothes, such as a suit, convey that you are serious about success; you desire good things. So just by wearing a nice sports jacket, dress shirt, and slacks, you let a woman know youre a man with status. Youre a man who could provide for her and her children.
The colors you wear are vital: Studies show that red, burgundy, and black clothes convey high status. So get yourself some slick black suits or formal wear, a red shirt, and one of my favorites (and girls!), a sleek burgundy button-down shirt. They all convey regality and strength.
In the case of red, you have the added bonus of sexuality, power, and dominance: definitely good qualities to portray! Go and purchase a nice red polo shirt, or red tie for your suit.
If you enjoy white clothes-the color of purity and cleanliness-then make sure you work on your TAN. White clothes against a dark backdrop make you look exotic, sexy, and well-travelled. You dont have to be an jet-setting playboy, to look like one!
* Winning body language. Women judge men by the way they move and position themselves; its part of their superior communication skills to know what a man is thinking or feeling based on his body language. So, position yourself in the right way: dont slouch, sit upright, gaze at her knowingly, lean into her to initiate intimacy. Ive got a great column on body language that will teach you the right ways-and the wrong ways-to project high status.
3. Financial Resources According to Matthew Fitzgerald, Studies with college coeds show that when shown photographs of men dressed in high-status uniforms, ties, expensive watches, etc.) and low-status uniforms, these women would be significantly more willing to enter into relationships with the more expensively-attired males regardless of the mans physical appearance. To a woman, attraction is simple: green is very good-looking.
Okay, so not every guy has money for expensive suits and watches, and materialism may not be part of your game. However, if you want to impress women, one of the fastest ways is by wearing snazzy clothes, sporting nice shoes (girls LOVE shoes!), and driving an expensive car. Especially when it comes to designer brands, women are VERY keen at spotting high-quality products. Its just part of their nature; with expensive possessions come high status and ambition, and a more comfortable lifestyle. Again, this all comes from their instinctual drive for survival and prosperity for themselves and their children. By owning the best, you become the best. At least on the surface.
Ultimately, if you want true love its up to you to find women who share the same goals and values. If money and status arent the most important things in life for you, dont chase the girls who do prioritize those things. Dont go for the shallow, bitchy types who only judge a man by how much he can spend on her.
4. Educational Level
Knowledge really is power, and on top of that, its an aphrodisiac! Gone are the days when being smart was acquainted with being a nerd; now, knowledge and intelligence are your friends. Its the easiest way to money, and the easiest way to success. So show it off a little. Let her know your TALENTS, your interests, your areas of special knowledge. As Roberts writes, Women are drawn to experts like the Crocodile Hunter, Bill Gates and Chris Rock because theyre experts in their industries. None of those guys is particularly good-looking, but theyre good at what they do, and parlay their knowledge into success, which drives women wild.
A guy whos an expert is one who is clearly successful and of higher status. At the very least, having a special knowledge means you have the TOOLS for success, and can provide intellectual stimulation for a girl (which, unless shes a bimbo with an IQ of 70, is quite important for women).
Additionally, just being in school is a great way to show off your knowledge: If youre in school, not only are there more women available, but youve already demonstrated to them that youre getting educated. Otherwise, its up to you to come across as reliable and credible without making her feel dumb.
5. Physical Aptitude
Physical height alone is an easy way to catch a womans attention, but its not the only thing. Again, evolutionary mechanics come into play here. A man who is tall, strong, and athletic is more likely to fend off threats to the woman and her children. He is also more likely to have a strong immune system, which will further aid their chances of survival. So, you cant blame women too much for valuing these things: in the world of female attraction, it really is a survival of the fittest. Those who show women they are in shape and healthy are much more likely to survive the dating game! Ergo, athletes, bouncers, firemen get the girls.
As for height, its all a matter of perspective. Weve all seen short guys with tall beautiful women. Neil Strauss himself, the best of the best pickup artists, is just 56 yet gets more beautiful women than we can imagine. How? By believing in himself. By positioning himself as a man of high status. By not bowing down to women of greater height or beauty. And by being a guy women know is fun and energetic to be around. In short, hes got INNER GAME, and when you have that down, nothing can stop you. You may even find yourself dating women who are taller than you!
But remember, presenting a man whos healthy and strong, willing to stand up for himself and the girl in a fight: thats the kind of guy who women will go for, regardless of height. Did you know that men with strong immune systems give off pheromone scents that women are instinctually attracted to? If you pay attention to what you eat and go to the gym on a regular basis, youre going to build your immune system up, and attract women without even trying! So do it, and watch the number of dates you get, soar.
In the end, men are like books: women judge them by their covers. But inside is an even greater story. So make your cover captivating, and youll become a best-seller in no time!
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